To-do lists that work

When I posted about aiming low and going slow, I was struck that several people commented that one way they do that is by managing their to-do lists.

Rachael said:

“Ways I “aim low”: write short to-do lists, not wish lists (though, frankly, I’m working on this one — it’s really tough); break big projects down into teeny-tiny little bits that I can take care of one at at time.”

SleeplessinSummerville said,

“The first thing I realized I needed to change was my relationship with my to-do list. Now my expectations of what I’ll do in a day are far more reasonable and yet at the same time, I feel like I get more done. Perhaps I’m just happier because I learned that I have to schedule the fun stuff ahead of the work so that the work does not prevent enjoying life.”

I have also found that short daily to-do lists–no more than three or four items on a typical day–helps me keep my brain from completely shorting out. When I add too many things to my plate, I tend to get overwhelmed just looking at the list, can’t decide where to start, and start procrastinating, avoiding, and spinning my wheels.

On the other hand, when I make my to-do list short, I usually accomplish more than I would if my to-do list was longer. Giving myself a little bit of guidance without laying on too much pressure seems to help me stay both productive and creative. And of course, when I just don’t have the energy or time to dominate the world–or at least the list–it feels a lot less like failure when it’s only one or two things I didn’t get to than when it’s, say, nine.

I do create a longer to-do list at the beginning of the week, but then I prioritize and break the larger list down into much smaller daily lists. I’ll share my system in a future post, but thought it would be fun to talk about the ways we keep our to-do lists reasonable.

How do you manage your to-do list? Do you find that keeping it small and manageable helps you stay focused, on task, and relaxed?

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