Pardon our dust! (And, yay for changes!)

  We’re doing a little spring cleaning here at The Happiest Home! Sarah’s been working hard behind the scenes to switch us to a new theme that will make it easier for you to navigate content and discover gems that have gotten buried over the years. We appreciate your patience while we roll out the new changes, and – whoops! – apologize if some older content somehow winds up in your inbox along the way. Want to stay up to date on what’s happening here amid all the changes? Fill out the box below and we’ll get in touch with you via


Looking for inspiration and real-life connection? Join me at the BEYOND Retreat next fall.

You know one of the biggest benefits of slowing down and doing less? When you step off of the merry-go-round of doing, doing, doing just because it seems like, well, the thing to do, you suddenly have all this “new” time and energy and brain space to pursue things that mean a lot to you. For years I’ve been dreaming of putting together an event bringing together awesome women in one place to dream, plan, recharge and get inspired. And now it’s time to make it happen. In October of 2015 I’ll be hosting a small but mighty group of women (is

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“Fun Parent” vs. “Boring Parent” – It’s Not Fair! But Is It True?

My husband made this lunch for my daughter last week. I know. I should have known it was coming when I caught him poring over Bento box tutorials on YouTube, watching a woman meticulously arrange smiley faces onto tiny rice-ball heads, then cap them off with pita-pocket hats. The very next day, Jon made a special trip to the grocery store for supplies. And that evening, he and Clara hovered over the kitchen island for a good half-hour creating The Lunch To End All Lunches.  Heart-shaped salami framed by heart-shaped cheese slices, people. A tiny little star cutout peanut-butter sandwich with honey and sprinkles


Delegate Like Downton: A Strategy For Managing Home Helpers

Imagine this: it’s a Sunday afternoon. One child just got done shoveling the walk, and another is unloading the dishwasher. You, on the other hand, are reading a magazine, sipping a cup of tea and enjoying the calm of a neat (enough) kitchen…that you didn’t even have to tidy up yourself. Sound like a fantasy? It’s not! It’s actually how my Sunday afternoon played out…and it’s a pretty common scenario around here. It hasn’t always been this way. Earlier in marriage and motherhood, I was surrounded by mess and chaos, and bogged down by resentment. Why didn’t other family members recognize

At Home with Meagan

5 Must-Have Kitchen Tools

I’ve been wanting to do a regular video series, like, forEVER. But when I had kids home with me during the day, I found it was just too difficult to find quiet pockets of time to shoot and edit regularly. A five-minute video may not seem like it takes much time to do, but there’s a lot of set-up and production involved, even in the most “candid” vids.  Now that my days are my own, though, I’m finding that I’ve got the space and quiet to take on some of those things I’ve been wanting to do! So, here it

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Whimsical Girl’s Bedroom Ideas

We’re moving! In less than two weeks my family is relocating to Southern California and we couldn’t be more excited. Our new house is ready and waiting for us and I’m itching to get into it and start settling in. One of the biggest differences between our current house and the one we’re moving into is the flooring. We have carpet now – lots of it – and we’re moving into a house with all hardwood floors. And while the new floors are beautiful, it’s going to be awfully echo-y in there until we get some area rugs down. One problem:


Gardening with Kids, The (Really) Easy Way

I’ve always wanted to think of myself as the kind of mom who grows herbs indoors using a DIY seed-starting kit, turning toilet-paper rolls or egg cartons into frugal mini-gardens which nurture her child’s green thumb, creativity and resourcefulness. In reality, I’m the kind of mom who intends, every year, to start seeds indoors eight weeks before the ground is warm, or start a windowsill herb garden, but always forgets to gather the supplies or set aside an afternoon for putting together a system. So this year, I decided to skip all the usual “Oh man, I can’t believe I

The WAH life: how I manage my time

This post is part of an ongoing series on blogging as a profession and working from home in general. To read the whole series, click here.

time management

One of the things aspiring WAHMs ask me about most is time management. While I’m still working on my own “perfect” blend of family and work time and have definitely been known to fritter away minutes on Candy Crush, my 10+ years as a work-at-home-mom has taught me a lot about how to make the most of a limited number of work hours. Here are some of the questions I’m most commonly asked – and my answers:

“How do you find time to work?”

I’ve answered this question approximately eight hundred times since I started working from home with young kids, and my answer is always the same: I don’t find time. I make it.

I like to tell my writing students that there’s no magical time fairy that will come grant you an extra eight hours a day so you can launch your business. You might not have the resources for child care for quite some time while your venture is in the gestation phase. So you’ll have to do what the rest of us do, or did: find unclaimed pockets of time, and/or shift your priorities so that you spend time differently. 

How that looks for you will depend a lot on your kids’ ages, your schedule, and your energy cycles. Maybe you’ll get up early or stay up late. Maybe you’ll ask your spouse to take over on the weekends so you can escape to the library. Maybe you’ll figure out how to work efficiently in small pockets of time – during your toddler’s nap or while your three-year-old plays on the floor. Maybe you’ll give up an activity or club or commitment. These sacrifices don’t have to – and likely won’t – last forever, but if you don’t have full-time child care you’re going to have to figure out ways to work within your reality.

The good news? Lots of people have done it, and you can too. Let your passion and excitement for whatever it is you’re launching carry you through. If you’re doing something you really love, you can find energy and time you never knew you had.

“Do you work a regular schedule?”

Well, my work day definitely doesn’t follow a 9-5 structure, but that’s not to say there’s no structure. On the contrary, I sit down to my computer around the same time every morning, and knock off work around the same time most afternoons.

What happens in the middle, though, changes as often as my socks. (For the record: daily.) I used to feel weird about that, thinking that in order to be a “successful” WAHM I needed to work at a steady pace for a pre-determined number of hours per day. But then I thought: says who?

My natural energy rhythm seems to favor this cycle: a day or two of intense activity, followed by several days of active rest. On most “active rest” days I am technically working, but I stick to easy, routine tasks that don’t require a ton of brainpower. I also take frequent breaks and will often knock off in the middle of the day to grocery shop or take kids to the park.

As long as it all evens out over time, I’m meeting all my commitments, and I’m making time to pursue big-picture projects that get me excited, I try not to worry too much about how many hours a week I’m actually working or on which days. As a result, sometimes I work a 20-hour week and sometimes it looks more like 50+. And I’m fine with that.

“How do you protect your family time?”

One of the trickiest things about working from home is that you’re never really “off”. There’s always something more you COULD be doing, and home life and work life tend to mix in a way that can be both awesome and troublesome.

Truthfully, I like it when my home, family and work lives meld. I like being able to get up from my desk when I’m stuck and throw in a load of laundry. I like that some days I can work in my yoga pants and my “office” moves around the house depending on the lighting and my mood. (I find I do some of my best creative work reclining on my bed, while I sit at my desk or the dining room table when I want to feel businesslike, and I often work on the sofa when I’m doing tasks that don’t require a lot of attention.)

I’ve taken several outside-the-home offices, always to give them up because I’d just rather work at home than anywhere else. But that has meant having to set boundaries when it comes to my “off” hours.

On the other hand, as I mentioned above, I’m not great about sticking to a pre-determined work schedule. So rather than try to set a schedule of when I WILL work, I have created pockets of “protected” time when I WON’T work:

  • I close my computer at 4 PM, when my elementary-school boys get home from school. After that, I will usually check in sometime after dinner, and sometimes after bedtime. But from 4 – 9 I’m mostly not working.
  • I shut down work a little early on Fridays to ease into the weekend, and unless there is a super pressing need, I keep my computer closed Friday afternoon through Sunday morning. I don’t typically work on Sundays either, but sometimes find that a lazy Sunday afternoon is a creatively rich time for me, so I leave the option open unless we have family plans.
  • I give myself freedom to knock off work for a while when I don’t feel like I’m accomplishing much. You know that wheel-spinning you can start to do when you sit at the computer too long…it looks like you’re working, but you’re really just refreshing your email again and again? If I find myself in that spiral, I walk away and take the kids out for ice cream or something. I’d much rather squeeze in some family time when my heart and mind just aren’t into work, than force myself to stay at my desk just because I’m “supposed” to be working. (And nine times out of ten, taking a brief break makes me more energized and efficient when I return.)

“What does a “typical” day look like for you?”

Truthfully, in my world there’s no such thing as a typical day. But, depending on the time of year, we do have certain routines we fall into. In my next post in this series, I’ll be sharing a “day in the life” look at my own school-year work life. Check back a week from today to get a sneak peek of how my days REALLY go.

If you’re hoping to start a home business – or already have one but want to help it grow – you might be interested in a mentoring program I’m launching this fall. Just send an email to with “WAHM” in the subject line, and we’ll make sure to get you more information – or you can subscribe to our mailing list and get the news that way.

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