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A Guide to Vintage Shopping for Your Home (Part 2)

by Guest Blogger on March 7, 2014

Today’s post is by Kelly Raffaele of Vintage Modernista and is Part 2 in a series on vintage shopping for your home. If you missed it, Part 1 is here. Thanks for sharing your expertise, Kelly!

vintage shopping guide

In my last post I talked about how to get started shopping for vintage pieces for your home, and I went into quite a bit of detail about where to go, both in-store and online. Today I’m going to focus more on what to look for once you’re in the store, how to know whether you’re paying fair value, and how to integrate your finds into your current home decor once you get home. Let’s get started! [click to continue…]

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Want to feel better about your house? Invite somebody over.

by Sarah Powers on March 3, 2014

Last Monday Meagan shared a simple way to plan a better week: Get up 5 minutes earlier. Since many of you are looking for small, specific ways to improve your home lives, we thought we’d make a habit of it, and take turns sharing these types of tips at the start of each week. -Sarah

“The ornament of a house is the friends who frequent it.” ― Ralph Waldo Emerson

Last weekend we realized rather late in the game that we had almost no plans. A good thing, in general, because we protect our weekends pretty fiercely from over-scheduling, but this one was particularly empty. So with very little notice we invited some friends to come over Sunday afternoon to let the kids play and have a casual dinner all together.

Hosting these friends is not a “clean the entire house from top to bottom” event. We see them often and they’ve seen our house in various stages of put-togetherness and disarray. And yet, in the 20 minutes before they arrived, I busied myself with the following:

wiped down surfaces in the downstairs bathroom, closed the half-open shower curtain that hides the tub where I keep my stash of dirty kitchen linens until I carry them upstairs to the laundry
collected a stash of papers that had taken over THE ENTIRE bar counter separating the kitchen and dining room, stacked them and put them in the office, and closed the office door
removed the heap of dirty kids’ clothes from the bottom stair and put it in a laundry basket upstairs
hung up backpacks, put the throw pillows back on the couch (in the spots where I like them), and turned on the table lamps in our entryway
dug through some photos I’d had printed weeks ago, and put pictures into two new frames – frames that had been sitting on a shelf for weeks with the stock photos still in them, and yet in less than five minutes now sported cute photos of my kids

Was it a thorough housecleaning? Oh heck no. There was a fair amount of hasty scooping-up and stashing junk away to spots unseen. But when the doorbell rang the house was picked up, well-lit, and ready to be played in, laughed in, and eaten in by 4 adults and 6 kids. And when our friends left, there were more dishes in the sink and toys on the floor, yes, but some fruits of my quick cleanup labor remained: a paperless counter, a cleaner bathroom, and nary a dirty sock on the stairs.

And the house felt good. It felt imperfect and chaotic and lived in, but it didn’t feel sloppy and uncared for anymore. [click to continue…]

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Sometimes the little things are really big things.

by Meagan Francis on February 5, 2014

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This is how my spice drawer looked a few hours ago.

Ugh, right? When we moved into this house, I immediately claimed the drawer right next to the stove for my bottled spices and seasonings. I already had those little IKEA drawer inserts, after all; and the location seemed perfect.

The “drawer full of seasonings” method worked for a little while. Until it stopped working, for several reasons. First, I bought more spices, including a few not-so-frequently used items like turmeric and whole cloves, and tossed them right in there with the ones I use a few times a week, like cinnamon, black pepper, and cumin.

Then I picked up some adorable vintage spice bottles at an antique store, before realizing that they were too small to transfer all of the spices from the larger bottles into. I tossed them in the drawer anyway.

The result, as you can see, was messy. But it’s not just the lack of aesthetics that have been driving me crazy.

First, I keep forgetting what I had in there, and whether I’m looking for ground oregano or chili powder, there was a good chance it would be buried way in the back under three layers of bottles.

Second, the drawer wound up over-stuffed, so about half the time it would get stuck when I tried to open it, which I do several times per day. Then I’d have to pull out a spatula and wiggle it between the bottle and the cabinet, and do all kinds of fancy jiggling to try to force the bottle back down so I can open the drawer.

Ten or fifteen times per week. [click to continue…]

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How I did it: Learning to keep a cleaner house.

by Meagan Francis on January 21, 2014

In the spirit of the new year, this month I’ll be sharing a few successes I’ve had in beating bad habits or introducing new, healthy practices into my daily life – and how I did it. I hope my “how I did it” stories inspire you to try making your own changes in 2014 – or to share your own success stories in the comments!

housekeeping, cleaning, advice

A few months ago, my sister-in-law Jenna and I were hanging out in my living room, when she remarked, “You know, you sure are a lot cleaner than you were in college.”

I might have been insulted by that remark except that Jenna was also my college roommate and every bit my partner in slovenliness. A massive laundry pile dominated our dorm-room floor the entire year. Mugs with dried cocoa and bowls cemented with oatmeal rolled under the bed and desk and were never seen again (until we moved out, that is.) There were probably bugs, but they were buried under so many layers of crap we never saw them.

If there was a song title that best described our living conditions that year, it would be Lynyrd Skynyrd’s “That Smell.” Our dorm wasn’t just messy, it was downright gross.

I’d like to say that I grew out of my sloppy habits as soon as I moved into my first “adult” home, or even after I had children, but that wouldn’t exactly be true. It took me several years to get a handle on the mess a family of small kids could create in a small apartment.

The first time I maintained a truly clean-enough (by my standards, anyway) home? The year or so when Jon and I were separated and divorced. Living alone (well, without another adult, anyway) taught me a lot about keeping up with a house by myself, and forced me to figure it out and take responsibility for the state of my surroundings.

And even though my home still gets messy from time to time (right now, the bedrooms could really use some help…) I no longer feel the sinking sense of panic I used to feel, like I would never get on top of it again. Because now I know that I can, and I will.

Here’s what I’ve learned about how to keep a cleaner house:

1. Stop resisting. [click to continue…]

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A Guide to Vintage Shopping for Your Home (Part 1)

by Guest Blogger on January 17, 2014

Today’s post is by Kelly Raffaele of Vintage Modernista. We are so excited to bring Kelly on in a two-part series on how to shop for vintage pieces for your home. Thanks for sharing your expertise, Kelly!

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As a child, my mother dragged me to every antique market, vintage shop and estate sale within a 30 mile radius. So when I left for college, you can imagine that I wanted nothing to do with “old stuff.” At the time, that’s all it was to me: old.

It wasn’t until I moved into my first adult apartment that those familiar places started calling me back. Having nothing more than a bed, a couch and a few kitchen items, I wanted to start creating my home. Sure, I could have gone to the store with the red bullseye, but what fun is that? I wanted pieces in my home that told a story, had character and would start conversations.

With a little patience, research and persistence, it is possible to create a home that reflects who you and your family are without breaking the bank! If you want to incorporate vintage collectibles and other “old stuff” into your home, here are some ideas to get you started. [click to continue…]

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Easy Last-Minute DIY Hostess Gift: Holly & Ivy in a Jar!

by Sarah Powers on December 16, 2013

This post is by Sarah Powers, Happiest Home contributor and Managing Editor, and blogger at Powers of Mine.

Easy DIY Holiday Centerpiece Hostess Gift

Remember my jar-hoarding? It came in handy this past weekend when I used a repurposed glass jar to create this quick and easy hostess gift:

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Yes, it’s technically some store-bought Christmas floral stuff in an old glass jar, but with some pretty twine and a little artful arranging, I think it turned out pretty!

I had everything except the holly and greenery in my house already, and picked those up at the grocery store. I chose one bouquet of just holly berries (I just love the look of them, don’t you?), and another of assorted holiday evergreens and ivy. The assembly took about 15 minutes for four of the gift jar bouquets.

To dress up the glass jars I used leftover lace and some red-and-white baker’s twine, and I wrapped them both pretty haphazardly around the jar for a more shabby-chic look. A velvet ribbon, strip of burlap, or soft yarn would all be pretty too.

Fresh flowers always make a nice hostess gift, and I thought this was a fun twist on that idea for the holidays. The glass jar means your host doesn’t have to hunt around for a vase, and the look of holly and ivy together is fresh and classic. These would also make sweet little centerpieces for a Christmas party, or even a teacher gift.

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How we keep holiday decorating simple, inexpensive and fun (for everyone.)

by Meagan Francis on December 13, 2013

Decorating for the Christmas holiday is one thing I look forward to year-round. Despite having a large family and a limited budget, we manage to turn out a cozy-feeling house each year with minimal stress or chaos.

I think the secret is keeping everything very simple, so that it’s always a joy and never a chore.

Here are some of my strategies for keeping holiday decorating simple and fun: [click to continue…]

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The more you do it, the better you get. The better you get, the more fun you’ll have.

by Meagan Francis on November 13, 2013

practice, fitness, motherhood

A couple of weeks ago, I spoke at a local parenting group about how to get healthy, family-friendly meals on the table when you’ve got limited time, money, skills…and, let’s face it, desire.

I told the audience about how, when I was a new mom, we ate “blue box” mac and cheese, ramen noodles, spaghetti and jarred sauce most of the week…and then drive-thru or takeout pizza the rest.

How I had no idea what I was doing in the kitchen, was disorganized and easily overwhelmed by recipes, and lacked the confidence to even try simple recipes like roasts and stews.

How it took several years of small, gradual, incremental changes and improvements and experiments before I got to the point where I felt comfortable in the kitchen (and actually wanted to be there.)

After the talk I thought back to those early years of motherhood and marriage. It wasn’t just the kitchen where I felt like a fish out of water. What a tragic housekeeper I was! I wanted so badly to have a comfy, functional home, but couldn’t seem to get it together.

Eventually I learned the hard way that doing a little bit of cleaning a few times a day is way better for my sanity and surroundings than trying to “save it all up” for a weekend cleaning spree. And that, like anything else, the ability to keep a home functioning is a skill learned with time and effort, not a gene you’re either born with or hopelessly lacking.

Funny thing is, the more efficient I became at keeping the house clean, the more I enjoyed being in my home and the more satisfaction I got from the small cleaning tasks that punctuated my days. [click to continue…]

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How we’re making the cash envelope system work for us

by Meagan Francis on October 30, 2013

The first time we used a cash-based budgeting system way back in our early 20s, we used cash for absolutely everything.

We’d cash our checks for the week, then go to the grocery store to pay our utility bills (I’m not even sure if grocery stores still offer that option!). Then we’d get money orders for rent and any other payments that had to be mailed away, and then we used cash for absolutely everything else – including gas, which required us to leave our vehicles and enter the gas station.

As you can probably guess, this system didn’t last terribly long. But it did illustrate to us how effective and eye-opening it can be to operate with cash, particularly when it comes to discretionary funds. After all, when that stack of cash is gone, it’s just…gone. There’s no overdraft protection or “pay later” option when it comes to dollar bills.

Over the years since that first experiment, we’ve had varying levels of success getting a cash budget to “stick.” [click to continue…]

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Sunday Reads: Roasting pumpkin seeds, going to church, natural home scents, and more!

by Meagan Francis on October 27, 2013

Is it really almost Halloween? I hope your weekend activities were festive and fun, whether or not you celebrate Halloween. Here are some great reads from around the web this week: